In the end, I simply wish someone would have told me why it was so harmful, instead of simply putting it on a list of things we don't talk about. Our bills were huge." I distinctly remember the Christmas he installed dial-up as the "family gift." Ironic, given the effect it had. As I sat there, awkwardly observing her read about rock-hard nipples, I couldn't help but wonder: Why was it acceptable for a woman to read erotica in seat 23B, while my watching porn in 23Cespecially if I'd had a peniswas taboo? The distinction isn't so much anatomy (although popping a boner on a plane certainly won't help the male cause) as it is psychology. It is getting increasingly difficult to find men in our society, whove never viewed pornography. It's when you're neutral toward or mildly interested in a particular sex act that porn has more potential to shape your desires, says Wright. But the overwhelming majority of the stories we hear about are men. I'm guessing you enjoy spending time with women over spending time using porn which is why you typically give it up when you get with a girl. If a study doesn't have men try fapping without porn - it's worthless. Quote Anonymous Reply to Anonymous Pages1 2 3 4 Next Last Advertisement Women Who Stray Notes on the history and current practice of female infidelity David J.